Shared my insight on why no one will have the answers we seek, in ways we do and embody.
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There's no "one size fits all" in how to do and be in life. We've adapted these concepts that to be successful, we "have" and "should" do it in a particular way or else we fail in life. We, humans, do this thing when we don't know what to do, we tend to look around at what everyone else is doing, to create formality and a sense of comfort. So it doesn't feel like we're missing out on anything.
It's like when we're in that space of discomfort of the unknown we want to escape it. We want to hide from it. We want to avoid it at all costs. It's not something we intentionally do, again we've adapted certain concepts and programming that teach us that being in the unknown means unsafety. The funny thing about this concept is the future has always been in the unknown, it's something that's not set in stone; meaning each day we have an opportunity to create what we desire from our inner to our external world.
Many of us have been so distracted and focused on coping and surviving that we haven't had the opportunity to connect to ourselves. In ways that strip the parts of us that no longer align and never aligned to our authenticity; the parts we absorbed and embodied so the world will accept and loves us in ways we're desiring and meet our needs. Creating a blueprint that tells us being ourselves is not good enough, instead, we must create a mask that pleases the world, rather than pleasing our hearts.
That's why we move the way we do. That's why we choose self-abandonment over our hearts' truths. That's why we feel guilty for standing up for what's in alignment with our hearts. That's why it's so challenging to listen to our inner calling, intuition and truths because we've been taught, from generation to generation, that it's wrong to do so. Even worst we get exiled from our community. Being alienated in a world where it's all about connections and coming together i.e. embodiment/integration.
I believe we're moving towards newer times. That many of us are tired and awakening to the concept that we're in systems that were created to keep us slaved in spaces that do not align with our heart's truth. Spaces that drain us and dim our light down, serve a purpose as a distraction disconnecting us from what we're called to create in this lifetime. Disconnected from living our unique energy signature which is what we embody when we live our hearts' truths i.e. authenticity.
Come to an understanding that no one, let me repeat it in caps NO ONE, in this world is not going to have the same experiences, nor will the process for it will be the same. I believe this is the key concept that assists us in being compassionate and kind to ourselves (and others). We tend to be hard on ourselves because of the expectations we've put on ourselves and absorbed since birth. Coming to understanding and peace that no one is supposed to have the same life as us. No one is believed to have the same experiences.
Truth be told if we were all having the same experiences that would defeat the purpose of Earth. The main reason, why we evolve in the ways we do is through each other. When we trigger one another, when we judge, hate, love, admire, connect, disconnect and our overall interactions! We influence and impact each other in ways that assist us in our evolution when we're choosing to receive it, through our differences and similarity.
We are complex beings that reflect the complexity and multi-dimensional realities we live in. These complexity, similarities, and differences are what make up the reason why we could be standing next to someone and have a completely different reality. Example: Person X, lives in fear and judges themselves heavily whereas Person V, they're living in the present and accept mistakes as lessons.
At the end of the day no other consciousness is experiencing this life for us, but our own. No one gets to experience our inner world the way we do unless we welcome others through vulnerability; sharing our experiences with them. As there's just no blueprint in our external world that'll guide us to create the life that aligns with our hearts' truths; it's within us. It's a matter of building that muscle of self-trust and stripping everything that we were made to believe made us who we are when in reality, it was all a fucking illusion.
Now, ready to be awakened to the power and light that's always lived within. The power and light that’ll guide us to creating experiences aligned with our hearts' truth, committing to the evolution of our consciousness and creating why we came here in the first place.
Remember our life is not supposed to make sense, especially if we're following our heart's truths. Now, it's going to look like madness to anyone who doesn't have access to its methods.
Take what resonates, like always
Remember, to be kinder, less critical